Woman says swinger boyfriend ‘loves it’ when she has sex with other men

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Nicolle Lennox, 28, and Ben Evans, 32, say their sex life has gone from strength to strength after they took up swinging in August this year – and their only regret is “not starting sooner”

A woman said her boyfriend “loves it” when she has sex with other men – and added that the pair’s “only regret” is that they should have started swinging sooner. Nicolle Lennox, 28, and Ben Evans, 32, say their sex life has gone from strength to strength after they took up swinging in August and now their relationship is “stronger than ever”.

They began doing ‘swaps’ with like-minded couples after watching a documentary about swinging earlier that month, and found themselves enjoying it. Now six months on, the couple say they wish they had started sooner – as swinging has made their private sex life better too.

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Nicolle, a former truck driver who now creates steamy couples’ content on OnlyFans full-time, from Rutland, East Midlands, said: “We were both doing OnlyFans but had never experienced being with anyone else.

“This swinging documentary we watched started a conversation and it turned out we would both do it.

“It’s really brought us closer – it’s made our bond even better.”

Ben, who also used to work as a truck driver, said: “The first time I went to a swinging club I was petrified.

“But after the first time, we started to enjoy it more and more.

“People say we must not love each other because we have sex with other people but that’s not true.

“We adore each other – but that doesn’t mean we can’t have an exciting sex life.”

Nicolle and Ben met eight years ago on Tinder, but the pair spent the first six years of their relationship on the road – both working as truck drivers.

In November 2020, Nicolle decided to dip her toe in the water and create a solo OnlyFans page under the username ‘Trucker Baddie’ – which she still goes by.

They said this “snowballed” as her page quickly racked up thousands of subscribers paying $12.99 per month to view her steamy content.

She started posting topless pictures and solo videos using sex toys – and Ben started to get involved with the channel at the beginning of this year.

They film themselves having sex whenever they need new content for their channel – or sometimes “just whack a camera out” at points when they feel the mood take them.

But they said there remain plenty of occasions when the couple enjoy time off-camera as well.

By November 2021, Nicolle was bringing in more money from OnlyFans than her full-time job as a trucker, so she handed in her notice to do content creation full-time.

She began raking in five figures a month – compared to the £2,000 she was taking home from her trucking job.

Ben said: “I was always supportive of Nicolle doing OnlyFans – when she asked me what I thought at the start, I told her to go for it.”

Ben began to get involved in Nicolle’s content little by little and the channel continued to grow.

Eventually, they were making couples content on a regular basis – and Ben quit his own job in August this year too.

Despite having a “great sex life” already, things began to shift up a gear that same month when they agreed to start swinging together.

Nicolle said: “We were both doing OnlyFans but had never experienced being with anyone else.

“This one day we were watching this programme on swinging, and it started a conversation.

“It turned out we would both be up for trying it.”

They felt there was enough trust in their relationship that they could give it a go.

They started experimenting with swinging clubs – and after getting used to the new concept, they began to enjoy it.

Ben said: “The first time we went to a swinging club, I was petrified.

“It was a slow burner because we hadn’t done it before and not much happened.

“The second time going it turned out a bit better for us, and we experienced it more each time after that.

“We were worried it would be full of old people, but it’s been great. Everyone is so respectful too.”

They do ‘couple swaps’ – where they find a like-minded couple interested in the same thing and swap partners before having sex in the same room.

Sometimes they film it if they are swinging with other creators – which gets lapped up by their OnlyFans subscribers and are consistently their top-performing videos.

Since then, they have been swinging for pleasure as well as work – and say it’s done “the world of good” for their relationship.

Ben explained every month or two, they visit a swinging club where they can let their hair down and “experience the excitement of the first time” all over again.

Nicolle said: “It’s made sex between the two of us so much better as well.

“When we have been with other people and then re-connect with each other, it’s up there with the best.”

Not only has it levelled up their sex life – but incorporating swinging into their lives has made their relationship stronger too.

They said bringing swinging into their relationship means they can share their feelings and desires – even if it involves others – without fear of judgement from each other.

Nicolle said: “It has really brought us closer. Our bond is even better now.”

Ben says they often face people misunderstanding them due to the “stigma” around swinging – but says “it’s nothing like what people think”.

He said: “We get a lot of comments we must not be happy and not love each other, but it’s not true. We adore each other.

“Even though we already have great sex, it doesn’t mean we can’t experience that excitement of the ‘first time’ all over again.”

They added that a lot of people assume swingers are riddled with STIs because they have sex with multiple different people.

But the reality is swingers are “more careful” and “get tested way more than people who don’t swing”.

The couple, who both still enjoy the occasional truck driving shift, say if ever either of them changed their minds about swinging and wanted to stop, the other would respect it.

But at the moment they’re enjoying it – and say they have no plans to stop.

Nicolle said: “Our only regret is not starting sooner.”

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